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Warning; stay away from sin, especially sexual sin

Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body.
1 Corinthians 6:18 ESV

Sexual sin is the opposite of wisdom and how God sees the world. Read Proverbs 5.

Its a sin that will damage you massively. A quick bit of crazy pleasure will give you weeks, even years of pain as God has to sanctify you back to how you were.

Read my post called “Stop sinning and get JOY instead” for ways to resist.

Here on this post is also a general way to resist sin:

  • To resist temptation in the moment you should distract yourself with an alternative that is appealing e.g. if it is comfort eating chocolate then phone a friend or if you are tempted to text your ex then also phone a friend instead or do your favorite hobby.
  • List the consequences to your life and how you will feel tomorrow if you give to temptation and have them in your memory for the moment you are tempted e.g. cheating on your partner will hurt someone you love.
  • Label your temptation so that you can face it e.g. “I want to binge eat but I know I will feel bloated and horrible, so instead I will have a cup of tea which fills me up until dinner”.
  • Remember that it hurts JOY; Jesus, Others and You.
  • Have a good routine and have a good sleep pattern so that you are stronger to resist.
  • Also make sure that you have enough play and quality time so that you are relaxed. This will make you stronger.
  • Pray to Jesus for help to resist.
  • See what tempts you, and do not go near it e.g. do not go near to a Thorntons chocolate shop if you have a chocolate problem.
  • Choose wise friends that can support you to resist and who you can be accountable to.

Jesus sees you as beautiful and He treasures you. It makes His heart sink to rock bottom if you do it.

Please beloved, stay away from sexual sin. Keep yourself safe and blessed in God’s love.

There are warnings in the bible about sexual sin and not getting into heaven. The same about witchcraft and cowards.

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Love & assurance in Father God

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Do you remember the first time God whispered to you “I love you”, when you were alone and afraid. It is the sweetest thing, very special and from another world.

Brothers and Sisters it is written that Father is even stronger than Jesus and with both in your Christian walk aswell as the Holy Spirit you will be safer. Obviously the Holy Trinity is right but you will do bigger miracles praying with Father in Jesus name.

“You heard me say, ‘I am going away and I am coming back to you.’ If you loved me, you would be glad that I am going to the Father, for the Father is greater than I.
John 14:28 NIV

Thats why I want you to read “Loved like never before” in my book recommendation post. If you have a relationship with the Father and you get close to Him in prayer and worship then you will get lots of assurance.

He is your heavenly Dad and you know good Dad’s comfort there children. 1 John 3:1.

Tell Father how good He is. Praise Him for His loving design in nature like beautiful sunsets. Draw near to Him and He will draw near to you.

Cuddle up to Abba Father in prayer in the morning with coffee and bible.

Let Him bless your socks off. He wants to as He loves you massively.

Obviously Jesus does this too and He will bless you until you mature into a relationship with the Father.

Dont feel condemned for no reason. God does not condemn anyway, He convicts sometimes. Just know that serving in action helps massively with assurance. 1 John 3:18-21.

We cannot expect to feel assured of heaven after we have eaten twelve packs of crisps in a row. You would still go to heaven but Jesus would have to teach you to not be a greedy little piglet.

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Home survival & magic meanies – 21 top tips

Brexit and Corona has this country in a mess and many UK institutions are going pear shaped. There is a remnant and if you reading this then its probably you. My opinion is that when a country transgresses like this, people dont care anymore and find hope in soul rotting things like witchcraft. This is why your mind is being battered where ever you go. Trust me, its rife and its hidden (the definition of the word occult) but now you know. There are other reasons you feel the way you feel but I am not safe to say here.

1. Find an easy way to praise Jesus. Just think “Jesus you are good” and remember a time when He blessed you e.g. when He made a verse stick out in the bible that let you know your loved. Takes 3 seconds and is a power pellet for your soul. You need clever not hard ways in spiritual warfare. If you break through in praise then it raises above the battle. You will know when you ha e done that.

2. Spiritualy they will make you feel like you are in a small box and that it is wrong to have fun and be free. The answer is to eat lots of chocolate and enjoy yourself so do some sensible escapism like making silly jokes with your friends. Just make sure you have some fun. Also play with your cat or dog, give them a belly rub.

3. Have an ultra cold shower, then warm shower on to warm up. Put on some face cream (a little bit so you are not dependant on it to not get dry skin). A bowl of fresh organic steamed veg. Beetroot juice to wash it down (B vits strengthen your noggin).

4. Massage your imagination as they are attacking it. Old retro PC or console games screenshots is a game changer.

5. Go for a run, swim, tai chi or other sport. This helps a lot.

6. The snap out way. You might be hunched up and grumpy with your thoughts going round in circles. Get your old Roxette CD and put it on full blast lol.

7. Think in pictures. See how well it works when you try it.

8. A spirit of wisdom. Ask the Lord for it while you ponder Proverbs. Wisdom is how God sees the world which is the reverse of the witchcraft view. It cuts through the fear making lies of witchcraft like a hot knife through butter. Understanding will guard you atm.

9. It sounds classic but garlic. There is something in the cartoons. Where did you think they got the idea from. People would have used it a lot back then when we were more spiritual so its still in our make up. It helps to believe. Chop some up and put it in a blender then leave the container open. Have lots in your food too for your breath. We should not be attracting everyone anyway lol.

10. Magic only hurts you if you are afraid. Jesus said do not be afraid over 50 times in the bible and did you know fear and excitement are similar emotions that you can switch one way in your mind. Turn fear to excitement then like going for a mission in a haunted house.

11. This one is vital. Forgive, love and pray for the occultists. Mathew 6:15 (you should keep short accounts with God anyway), Mathew 5:44 and Romans 12:21. If you get bitter or angry with them then you will still hurt inside.

12. Know your verses too as the Word is the real facts, the truth. Use the sword of the Spirit to blast away any lies from the enemy (Ephesians 6). Research how to use the sword of the Spirit skillfully.

13. Tumeric capsules from your health food shop. Science shows that this effects the blood to brain barrier in a positive way. I believe mental health is actually demonic like they did back then. Science provides a how and the bible provides a why IMO.

14. Reading books. a brain scan for when you are reading and it shows a big amount of activity. Reading massages your brain and you learn too.

15. Research and do the prayer of St Patrick. For me its even better than the Ephesians 6 armor. Do Ephesians 6 armor too though. Check out my post on that for how to put it on properly.

16. If you are getting your thoughts battered at home then it helps to do lots of little jobs around the house. Nothing too strenuous e.g. be clever and wash up just the plates you need, empty the bin, iron just two shirts etc. It is distraction and sometimes it breaks it completely.

17. Look up blanket forts online and make one. Read the Word inside and have cups of tea as tea always helps too.

18. Laugh at it. The enemy hates being mocked. The enemy is the casters sin and not them btw, they are still loved. Laughter truly brings the false power to its knees.

19. If its a blue sky then look up and let it clear your mind. Thank the Lord for His wonderful creation.

20. Make yourself mentaly strong and you will be fine e.g. reading, revising and other academic things. It does not have to be genius, it will help a lot if you just stimulate your noggin.

21. Methodical music and creativity; Listen to liquid drum and base music. If you can, try and research Christian DnB. It can help you to be methodical and focus on creative tasks e.g. making a collage or sketching. This could very much distract you from worrying or being fearful.

This may all seem strange but you are in an invisible war. Stand strong Christian soldier!

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3 must read books to bless your walk

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The Cross Centered Life by C J Mahaney

This a small in size book. Like, 4 inches by 4 inches. Its about having the cross of Jesus in the center of your walk as a Christian. The Old Testament points to the New Testamenent birth, death, burial and resurrection of Jesus who is God. Read this book once a year to stay spiritually on the ball.

Loved Like Never Before by Ken Symington

Another small book but not as small. An easy read. Dont judge a book by the cover but there is a lovely picture on the front of a Dad cuddling a son. Its about Daddy God and I always say that knowing Abba Father is a vital blessing in your Christian walk. So many benefits to JOY (Jesus, Others, You) of knowing the Father.

The Problem of Pain by CS Lewis

Jesus Christ suffered for us and we are CHRISTians. God will give you seasons of happiness but if you did not have discipline (pain) then you would not know how not to treat people. We have to accept that sometimes we will suffer.

The bible

Just wanted to say that this goes without saying. Oh no I just said it. Now I can say that I said something thats goes without saying. It has been said, just leave it at that.

We need to learn, memorize as much as we can and understand the Old and New Testaments but actually live it e.g. loving in action, forgiving in our hearts and praying for our enemies when we can, as is written. Not having bible quote battles.

The Word is the foundation of our faith e.g. when we memorize Romans 8:38-39, Jesus can then remind us of this verse when He whispers to us in His still and peaceful voice and we are no longer afraid.

The English Standard Version is an amazing version and I have a post called “Learning the Word takes away fear”. Jesus is the Word actually and He said so many times in the bible, do not be afraid. The bible is our trust resource (the opposite of fear).

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Big Lessons 1-10 series for if things get tough

I have been through a bit of a tribulation period in my life and came through it.

God let this this happen in order that I would learn to look after myself and then pass this wisdom on to others in order to help them look after themselves.

This is the Big Lessons (BL) series:

  1. The sinful lilo (conquering sin)
  2. Relax And Try (surviving persecution)
  3. Storms (Word foundation & do what Dad says)
  4. Understanding (the DUWD)
  5. Hebrews 12:5-6 (caring discipline)
  6. Your talking device (the power of what we say)
  7. Pacing it (Proverbs 16:32)
  8. Rationing (life or lock up)
  9. Exercise (a game changer)
  10. Being methodical (best way to do stuff)

I have also given relevant advice on the “Worthy Christian Forums” website ( with name “Sharky and George”.

Through the Holy Spirit, Jesus taught me Big Lessons (BL’s) when things were really tough. These BL’s can be applied to other sorts of tough times too.

I received wisdom from God e.g. I learnt understanding like BWE’s. BWE’s stands for Betroot What Else. Beetroots revolutionized my vitamin decefiency because of my medication that I had been put on because of my mental health label. Medication is actually necessary though.

The point about BWE’s is that God was teaching me the same principles as is shown in the Chimp Paradox book by Professor Steven Peters. Addressing the vitamin deficiency enables me to manage my inner chimp.

Professor Steven Peters has led people to win gold in the olympics through his mind model.

You should have some fruit tins and baked bean tins in your cuboard but there should still be enough space left for a pussy cat to manover inside. Two lessons; do not stock up a silly amount when you do not need to and do not put your pussy cat in the cuboard.

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Big Lesson 1 – overcoming sin with wisdom

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Are you always struggling with the same old sins? Do you end up feeling down as the tempter got you again and then told you your muppet after?

What if you have a few sins that always re-occur but one of them is the root. What if they all went if the root went.

What I mean is maybe one sin is making you a mess and when you struggle to give up, this sin produces other sins to compensate, like a lilo i.e. you push down one part of the lilo (maybe smoking), and another part of the lilo pops up (maybe Ben and Jerry’s icecream). Result is you get fat or feel rubbish smoking:

Tackle your root sin. Draw a graph of how and when you sin in order to work out what your root is. What a clever way to repent and have a joyful life instead as sin will make a Christian a shaky mess. See how wisdom tastes and smells instead:

Proverbs 3:13 ESV “Blessed is the one who finds wisdom, and the one who gets understanding”

Sin does make you a mess:

Target your worst sin and get rid of it. It is smoking in the above paragraphs as it is highly addictive. You might scoff delicious chocolates for a while like I do, but soon you will adapt.

Wanting to escape reality with chocolate, smoking, drinking and other routes will make you an addict. Being an addict will obviously be reflected in the way you relate to people e.g. you will only seek what you want to get your fix and people will not like you.

Have a trusted Brother or Sister in Christ to be accountable to about your sin problems and make sure you pray about it. Learn wisdom in order to cleverly conquer it. There is a whole book in the bible devoted to wisdom. The book of Proverbs. Get wisdom, it is delicious!

I had a dream about being at the beach with my family.

Mum told me to not swim out to far as I would be swept away by the strong currents.

I did swim too far out though and started to get in trouble.

I struggled against the current. I then prayed for wisdom and God said stand up.

I stood up and the water came to my chest. I then walked to shore.

No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.
1 Corinthians 10:13 ESV

Wisdom is the way to escape the temptation or attack. That’s why:

Blessed is the one who finds wisdom, and the one who gets understanding,
Proverbs 3:13 ESV

Shalom 😃💛

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Big Lesson 2 – Relax And Try in testing times

Things seem to be a bit stormy in the world at the moment. At least that is the way it seems to me in the UK due to brexit.

If you are having to deal with stressful situations e.g. people are being mean to you, you have lots of jobs you must finish or even if it is just coping with normal life, then I have a game changing solution.

When your body is in a relaxed state, your brain is able to make more complete decisions. This way you will be successful in what you are doing as you will make rational decisions.

It seems simple but if you Relax And Try (RAT) as hard as you can then you will win.

When you believe that you are able, it would be a good idea to practice your patience by deliberately choosing a busy supermarket queue so that you practice. See how perfectly you can manage it. Youths may be yelling at each other in the queue but stand firm as your relaxed mind knows you are on the right side of the law. Minions barge you but again you know the law and if you let them hit you with no provocation then you actually win as they go in the cell.

The opposite is getting yourself anxious as they intimidate you and then you give the fight response of the fight or flight in built natural reaction we all have. This will make you start shouting and hitting out which will then get you in the cell while the minions go and kick a homeless man before they get home where they plan more evil. Running away which is the flight response will get you in a cell too as people will not understand. Lets face it guys, anti-semitism is on the rise and the UK is in a bit of a mess.

Jesus will do the rest for you if you Relax And Try as hard as you can.

Find ways to relax e.g. focus on your breathing or focus on the soles of your shoes as you walk along. Invent ways to be mindful and research mindfullness in order to relax.

Learn this well and it will become a habit in a few weeks. You will feel empowered and be able to thrive in and not just survive the current times.

This is a powerful proverb and if you get the hang of it you will win.

Proverb 16:32 ESV

“Better a patient person than a warrior, one who holds his temper than one who takes a whole city”

That is a whole city. That is how powerful the virtue of patience is.


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Big Lesson 3 – What to do in stormy situations

“Why do you call me ‘Lord, Lord,’ and not do what I tell you? Everyone who comes to me and hears my words and does them, I will show you what he is like: he is like a man building a house, who dug deep and laid the foundation on the rock. And when a flood arose, the stream broke against that house and could not shake it, because it had been well built. But the one who hears and does not do them is like a man who built a house on the ground without a foundation. When the stream broke against it, immediately it fell, and the ruin of that house was great.” Luke 6:46‭-‬49 ESV

When storms come (e.g. a rotten Brexit), stand on the Word of God and be wise by doing what the Word says. Then you will thrive and not just survive.

That is what I did in my tribulation and He gave me 14 Big Lessons. Do the same and you will be fine.

NB. You need faith to receive wisdom so read your bible and even better praise Jesus to get the highest level of faith.

“For the Lord gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding” Proverbs 2:6 ESV

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Big Lesson 4 – Understanding (the DUWD)

You are being mental health raped or generaly psychologicaly persecuted by the Government because you are a Christian….

You have mental knots in your mind. Worries and questions unanswered all floating about in your noggin. This drains your energy and fills you with anxiety and fear that effects your faith negatively.

DUWD = Don’t Understand then Write it Down

Whats that?

I will tell you. Get an A4 bit of paper and write down at the top the question that has been plaguing your thoughts for days. Draw a line down the middle of the page with yes and no at the top on either side.

Write down the reasons for yes and no on each side and give each one a score from 1 to 10 on how valid it is.

Add up the score at the bottom and you have an answer.

If you did it well then you will see something obvious like 50:12 and have no more worries.

If it niggles you after that then put it in a stronghold buster. There is a post for that on this blog.

Thanks Theresa, waffle chops 💛🍫

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Big Lesson 5 – Hebrews 12:5-6 (caring discipline)

Check out the cover of this book:
Your heavenly Father God can be cuddly as it says in Romans 8, Abba Father (means Daddy God) with you on His lap.

There is also His tough love that teaches you to be strong so you can cope with life better. This kind of love is prudent e.g. when you put your hand too close to the fire place you get a smack on your wrist from Dad but you never burn your hand again for the rest of your life.

Hebrews 12:5‭-‬6 ESV

“And have you forgotten the exhortation that addresses you as sons? “My son, do not regard lightly the discipline of the Lord, nor be weary when reproved by him. For the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and chastises every son whom he receives.””

When things go wrong, ask yourself the question, is God disciplining me for something I have done wrong?

Maybe He has been trying to tell you for ages and you had been suffering lots but you did not change as you did not know.

If you start asking, finding out through prayer and then repenting of whatever it is, you will start to have a much more successful and joyful life. He is raising you as His child.

God is love and He will love you however He can in whatever situation or place you are in, in order to help you.

N.B; the book mentioned above is amazing. The Father figure is the most vital relationship you can have therefore this book will significantly strengthen your Christian walk i.e. people say “he knows the Father”.

The Father is greater than Jesus and He is the sovereign ruler of the whole universe.

A nice old hymn about your Father in heaven:

Father God I wonder how I managed to exist without the knowledge of your parenthood and your loving care.

But now I am your son, I am adopted in your family, I can never be alone as Father God your here beside me.

I will sing your praises.

I will sing your praises.

I will sing your praises for forever more.

You are His biological child and He can never let you go.

He is outside of time and knows the future perfectly thus He is perfectly powerful.

He is God thus He can pause time, rearrange things and then press play again e.g.

  • World war 1 1914 Christmas truce football match.
  • Joshua 10:13 when the sun stopped (how we measure time).

Selah. You are safe child 💛